Comments on: Wonder Drug

By: AJ

AJ — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 12:48:15 +0000

What if the guy doesn’t have drive and still shy’s away from his ego being boosted?? What if he doesn’t like taking compliments..

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 16:20:31 +0000

What would I do if there were such a pill? I would ask for it 7 times a week and not just 3. Or maybe 8 or 9 times a week. LOL if only our kids and our schedules would allow…!

By: Mart

Mart — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 11:38:36 +0000

I find all these benefits of the wonderdrug fiction to me (excuse my negativity). For me, sex is a painful process that I have to persevere through. Everytime I cross my fingers that my husband will not ask for it. I end up being more tired at the end of it, especially when I wake up in the morning. It also leaves me stressed. As a result I could comfortably live without it.
Somebody please advise.

By: Mart

Mart — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 11:24:49 +0000

Don’t know what to tell you, honestly. Been married only 4 years. I would think it is a hormonal problem but you say medications have not worked. It could be difficult for him to deal with coz his ego is probably affected. Maybe you could try working on that – to boost his ego.

By: Sue

Sue — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:41:05 +0000

ooops by others I meant other medications!!!Geeez first time I let it out I get no response!

By: Sue

Sue — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:00:26 +0000

been married 38 years and now living a sexless marriage for 5 years. don’t know what to do. been praying 4 ever and telling hubby i need to be intimate but he says he can’t help it…..no desire…………..WHAT DO I DO? he won’t go to a counselor or let me discuss it with ANYONE….I do talk to GOD….he has tried Viagra and others and still nothing but headaches! HELP!!!!!!

By: Debbie

Debbie — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 06:56:42 +0000

I wish God allowed me to have a husband, then i could of joined in.

By: Elisabeth

Elisabeth — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:07:08 +0000

I couldn’t agree more with the original article. I adore my husband… currently we are far less than the three a week, but that’s because he trying to fix a low thyroid issue that causes him to be constantly exhausted. We used to be daily! I’d love to get back to that… I’m sure when his energy starts to return we’ll get at least the three (even with seven children and both of us working full time!)

By: Brandy

Brandy — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:26:55 +0000

An excellent resource is the book by Gary Chapman, “The Five Love Languages” I believe that sex is the ultimate face to face form of communication, but that the ability to have it starts way before the bedroom. AND, according to Chapman, we all have a primary “love language.” Since reading this book I have realized my own LL and those of my loved ones and it really works. Because if a person doesn’t feel loved by the time the bedroom comes around, sex can be difficult if not impossible. It’s common for married couples to not know their spouses love language, so it’s worth looking into.

By: Brandy

Brandy — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:23:12 +0000

Good for YOU!! Ask and we shall receive!!